Friday

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2pm - Guests arrive

3pm - Orientation and introductions

4pm - Gentle flow (45 min) at the pond

coping skill - square breathing

OR - Nature walk

5pm - Intention circle activity 

- coping skill TIP skill

6pm - Free time or additional time to work on intentions 

7pm - Dinner

coping skill - mindful eating exercise

9pm - Star gazing yoga (30 min) on the back lawn 

- guided meditation to expand perspective and let go of stress

10pm - Quiet hours

Saturday

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7am - Sunrise flow (45 min)

on the front lawn

- coping skill; progressive muscle relaxation

8am - Breakfast 

9am - Boundaries workshop

10am - Warrior flow (60 min)

at shelf by nanas falls

- coping skill - PE breath technique saying “calm” out loud for a count of 4, pause for 2, exhale for 6

12pm - Lunch 

1pm - Mindfulness based stress reduction workshop 

2pm - Quiet time/Reflection time

at house or square creek 

3pm - ABC group work

- coping skill - grounding technique - label things in the room

4pm - Free time 

5pm - Restorative Yoga (45 min) at the main pond

- wild and wise meditation for younger self

6:30pm - Dinner 

7:30pm - Wine tasting

back yard

10pm - Quiet hours

Sunday

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8am - Breakfast 

9am - Group work

10am - Mindfulness meditation and sharing circle

at the clearing near sisters tower

- mediation from wild and wise book

12pm - Lunch 

1pm - Nature walk 

location to be determined on fan favorite location

OR

Vinyasa style yoga (45)

location to be determined on fan favorite location

2pm - Guests depart

Find a comfortable position, I actually find that it’s very helpful to keep your eyes open.

  1. As always, I like to start by just feeling the sensations in the body. Feeling a sense of relaxation trickle down from your head, through your neck, into your torso, your hips, your legs, all the way down into your feet. Relaxation, it turns out, is the key to this practice. You might also notice the breath. Notice the sensations happening with each inhale and exhale. 

  2. Now let’s turn our attention to the first element of this bigger view: the big mind. And that is the visual field. So just for fun, let’s start by picking an object in your visual field. One small, tiny object, finding and focusing on only one star. Focus in on this one small thing as intently as you possibly can. Bringing all of your visual perception to this one small dot of awareness. Let’s do it for about ten more seconds…and now drop all effort. 

  3. Let your eyes relax. Notice that almost automatically, after a moment of focus like that, the mind just sort of relaxes into this wider, bigger view. Notice what it’s like now to see the panoramic view of whatever’s in front of you. You’re not trying, you’re not effort-ing. You’re just allowing yourself to take in this view, to gaze at what’s in front of you. In a relaxed way, you can even imagine the edges of your visual field slowly expanding. It’s like you’re now the wide-angle camera on your phone. And we do this from a spirit of allowing and receptivity. You’re just allowing yourself to be in this state where you’re gazing at the world in panoramic awareness. The big view. 

  4. Now let’s add one more piece to this. Begin to notice sound. We’re now going to add auditory perception. Just notice sounds that are close by from this open, receptive, relaxed state. You might even notice the sound of each breath. And now allow the scope of your hearing to expand. Noticing sounds in nature, maybe a cricket.

  5. And now in a relaxed and gentle way, allowing yourself to notice sounds even further off into the distance. Maybe the sound of the breeze outside, the sound of movement, just relaxing into this wide, big view. Eyes relaxed and open. Ears relaxed and open. And now we might add one more sense. As you hold this wide open gaze and you hear the sounds you might also notice that sensation is happening in the body. That’s also part of this view. 

  6. Now see what happens when you just allow the sensations of the body to be part of this view. Noticing that your awareness, the scope of your mind, keeps getting bigger, broader, wider, vast. Noticing the visual field. Noticing sounds. Noticing sensations. No attempt to change. Relaxing into things as they are. Seeing this moment with this totally fresh, wide open view. 

  7. Chances are, if you’re new to a practice like this, it takes a little bit of effort and concentration to stay with this kind of a wide open perspective. So the invitation for the next minute or two is to drop that effort. Don’t try. But see if you can still stay connected in some way to this wide open view. If you feel even the slightest part of yourself wanting to push your eyes open or your ears open, or expand the size of your mind, let that go. No effort, but staying in this relaxed, receptive view. Now see if you can just stay in this effortless open view for the next 30 seconds or so. And now, before we come back, I want to give you a few moments just to explore and investigate this bigger perspective.

  8. Staying where you are, just noticing any differences between the way you ordinarily see life or the world, and the way you’re seeing it now. Comparing and contrasting the big mind that we’ve been trying to cultivate to the small mind, which, for most of us, is our home base. 

  9. Now you can bring yourself here. We never really left. For me, when I enter that state of mind, or that mindfulness practice around opening awareness, the scope of the mind, it often feels like my mind becomes almost like a security camera, that I’m just watching the feed of this camera, listening to the feed of the microphones, watching whatever’s happening. It tends to be really boring and not very interesting, but it starts to become incredibly interesting the more my perspective widens. 

  10. One of the things I’d like to do before you go is to give you a practice that you can take with you for the rest of the day, a way of integrating this shift from the small mind to the big mind into your everyday life. The way to do this is really quite simple. It’s to imagine several times throughout the rest of the day that you’re seeing whatever it is that you’re seeing from the perspective of a mountain top. Or maybe it’s the perspective of a beach. Pick your favorite natural metaphor. The basic idea is that if you catch yourself feeling stressed out, or if you notice that you’ve spent the last 45 minutes scrolling Instagram on your phone with a tight-gripped stare, just take 10 seconds, 15 seconds, 30 seconds, to see whatever’s happening from the mountain top. In fact, it can be quite interesting to bring this big perspective into something like email, or the document you’re working on, or surfing the news, or whatever it is. It’s actually so radically different that it can change your entire perspective of some of these things that make up a big part of our day. So that’s the homework for tomorrow: three moments where you are seeing whatever’s happening in life from the mountaintop, or from outer space and then see what happens.